I'm utterly ashamed to know how stupid someone can be when it comes to love. Some ladies tend to melt upon hearing those sweet words being chanted by a man of their own liking. But, despite their interest in that particular person, they didn't realise that they are giving themselves out, showing their weakness at the same time.

Recently this year, I've encountered a jerk who told me that he found someone and that he was half unsure whether she's going to be his wife-to-be. That was before he got engaged with her. But throughout the days and months, I managed to find out why he's sticking to her despite him calling her stupid, lying his whereabouts as well as using vulgars on her when she frantically trying to call him countless times.

About 3 to 4 months before they were engaged, he revealed that the lady was a widower, had a son, a house and a tenant who paid $1.8k every month without fail as a rent. And she even told him that its ok for him not to work if they were to be married, as the rent money will be enough to survive. Only when I asked him, wasn't he the type who will want to work and not depending on a lady's money, he changed his tune by saying that its not about the money that he sticks to her. Its about her sincerity, eventhough she's just a Primary 2 dropout.

The questioned I asked, wasn't even answered in the beginning, but rather it made me really wonder if this jerk is chasing her because of money. To start off, he himself is having difficulties in securing a job and doesn't even have any savings to begin with.

And the best statement I received when I asked him whether he truly loves her, was that he doesn't mind her stupidity since she's a Primary 2 dropout. but the son, is quite a big deal to him. Not because he will be an instant father when he gets married to her, but he find the son as a hassle and a burden.

It really make me wonder, how blind someone can be when it comes to love. I'm ashamed to know that a jerk like him, making use of the lady just because she has a house and money. And I'm pissed with the lady for being stupid and insensible for not reading the real meaning in between.Perhaps, she herself is desperate to find a replacement for her son.

How can a lady, tolerate in being scolded and insulted with vulgars, but yet, still in love with such jerk?

And I lose respect to those men who are like this jerk, who's main goal is just to live easily on a woman's wealth instead of going through the hard way.