Initially, I wanted to post in multiply. But if I were to post this entry there, some people might not like it. Ada will say "Eleh, da step nak alim la tu".

So instead of inviting the "huuhaas", might as well I post here.

Just came back from Thursday night class at the masjid near my home.

This particular musykil (question) by someone really caught my attention. Something different. Something that makes us learn something. A question which I never heard someone asking any Ustaz before.

The question was

"Saya ada seorang kawan yang murtad. Baru-baru ni, dia menjemput saya ke majlis pernikahan anak nya. Apa hukumnya jika saya pergi ke majlis tersebut?"

Ustaz reply was

"Nauzubillah. Ini namanya kawin civil. Seandainya majlis itu adalah seorang dari anggota keluarga, makcik atau pakcik misalnya, maka kita tidak harus menghadiri majlis pernikahan. Seorang muslim atau muslimah tidak patot menghadiri majlis kawin civil kerna kita tidak patot menyokong perkara yang mungkar, iaitu menyokong kawin civil. Sepertimana yang kita tahu, jika seseorang yang keluar dari agama Islam dengan cara kawin civil, adalah berdosa besar. Bila orang yang murtad itu meninggal dunia, walaupon duit atau emas nya setinggi langit dan bumi, Allah tetap tidak akan menerimanya.

Tetapi kalau yang menjemput anda itu adalah kawan anda, ataupon teman sekerja ataupon boss anda, dibolehkan menghadiri majlis tersebut. Tetapi.. tujuannya bukan untuk menyokong. (sort of out of courtesy that person has invited you). Wallahua'lam. "

Semoga kita dapat mempelajari sesuatu dari soalan tersebut. Insya Allah.

Labels: islam, kawin civil, murtad

Went for the second session class last night. Ustaz was unable to teach as he had to attend his wife's graduation. Therefore, yesterday was consider "Ladies Night". One of the staff joined us for the lesson. It was about Fiqh. Yesterday's session was quite enjoyable. Perhaps I'm more comfortable to have a lady teaching a small class rather than a male. 1 more new member joined us and she's somewhat familiar to me but I seemed to be unable to recall where I've met her.

Ooohh..Had an extremely late dinner last night. Wasabi Fillet is soo yummy =P And my favourite seaweed shaker fries.. Mmm.. The thought of it makes me almost drool. Heheh.

Anyway. this week as well as next week is going to be my Puasa week. My bad for paying the debts at the last minute and the temptation for me to eat is quite high. Pity my lunch buddy having lunch alone. Heheh.

I'm having back pain nowadays. *sigh* And came across this article which really makes me go "Erk!" The title is quite catchy thou. Why High Heels Make Women's Breasts Sag? OMG.

On another note, it's soooo hard for me to get time off nowadays especially when my VERY DEAR boss is not around (-_-") I just wonder why on earth must i ask my AM's permission. I know I do not have pending tasks on that day, that's why I REQUEST for time off. Pfffttt! He's getting more and more troublesome. My emails to him was left unreplied while his email to us must be replied asap. WTF..!

I guess I should really make a trip down to supermarket to buy that frozen pizza which has been appearing in my mind and perhaps shaker fries.. Heee~

Last Tuesday, had a date with Zam. He picked me up outside my workplace and off we went to Downtown. Bought tickets to watch The Haunting in Connecticut. He made me embarrassed when he told the ticket seller "Oh, its ok to have the seats near the wall so that she can hide". (-_-") Thanks la eh. Zzz..

Initially he wanted to eat at Hei Sushi but upon seeing that dinner buffet starts at 6pm, we made our way to the food court. After our western dinner, head back to Hei Sushi where we had dessert. He tasted the peach ice cream and tempura ice cream, eventhou we wanted to eat the other type of ice cream. *sigh*

Made our way to the beach while killing 30 minutes of the free time before the movie start at 745pm. He's fond of poking my waist especially when he knew my weakness spots (-_-")

When we're about to make our way to Nebo Downtown, we saw a guy holding a map in the darkness. We assumed he was lost but later we made other assumptions. After we passed him for about 5 steps, his friend rode past us and shouted "Hey, you lost arh?" Lol.

The movie was overall nice and shocking. It really made me wonder if its really based on true stories or just a gimmick. *grins* Scary too. And of course I'm scared to watch scary movies. Therefore, he tried his best to comfort me each time I was in shocked. Thanks aite *blush* And thanks for sending me home.

On Wednesday, started my religion night class. What shocked me is there are only 2 of us besides the Ustaz. It actually made me uncomfortable. Especially if they ask questions and there's nobody to answer. I know Lia was enjoying it as she can ask all sort of question but me? Oh well, I'm not really the type of person who ask lots of questions.

If I were to tell Mama, she will definitely ask me to stop going. Ewanz asked me how's the class. Thou I know that I'm no longer with him, he too did told me to stop going if possible and advice me to go to those night religion classes which have large number of students instead of pathetic 2 students on every Wednesday night. Arrghh..!

Last Saturday, met up my bestie at AMK where we had our lunch and proceed to the library. And we got to know that they locked the power switch to prevent those laptop buggers into using it for prolong time *sigh* Because of them, those who are genuinely wanting to use for awhile, are unable to charge their laptop.

And been sometime since I last had ice blended at Coffee Bean with cheesecake. Yummy =P

I was down with slight fever that saturday night together with cough + running nose *sigh* Initially, I wanted to take mc on Monday but since one of the people under me didn't turn up 3 days (because of 1 day MC for 3 days), I had to fight myself so as not to fall sick =/

My back pain has been killing me.

I've been sleeping late nowadays and waking up late for work. Ended up, rushing to school. *sigh* What's wrong with me nowadays ? =/

Vans contacted me last week. He shocked me. I wonder.. What's with all my ex-es nowadays? They always contact me back around the same timing, together (-_-")

And what really shocked me was that he told me "I nak meet your parents. I nak hitch with you since you're the only girl I met up with after I putus tunang that time". I was dumbfounded.

But, its too good to be true. For, honestly, you have to gain my trust back after what you have done for that 3 years. 3 years is not a short period of time. And yes. You were a jerk and I'm not sure if you're still the same jerk, ok?

P.S: Stop it la Shah. I never love you in the first place nor there's chemistry. Lucky I acted fast or I'll be one of those pathetic ladies which you have been deceiving them into thinking that you're leading a great lifestyle.

Last Friday, met up with Lia. Initially wanted to watch Obsessed at Vivo but I got caught up at work for the Video Conferencing. *sigh* It didn't went well. They started 30 minutes late. I was fuming by then when the big boss asked what happened to all the 7 rooms as we noticed that one by one were off. *sigh* I really felt bad.

We caught up Ice Age at Jubilee as I need to destressed myself. Well, at least it helped me =) Pasar malam was nearby and there's 1 or 2 dress caught my eye but the salesgirl was too persistant. I wanted to look at others but she told me in Indonesia that the first one suits me best. Well, it irks me off. Therefore, I didn't even buy one single dress. Instead, I was hungry and bought some keropok leko and vadai. Lol.

Saturday was totally my rest day as I slept from 1pm till about 5pm with some occasional wake-ups in between. I was totally dead tired. The tiredness from the whole week overcome me on Saturday. Luckily, I need not be at work around mid-day, or I wouldn't know what happened. Sadly, my body needs to re-energised!



Oh, there's a wedding-bike convey happening at my blk. Well, from what I know there's a lot of bikers but one thing which really caught my attention was that the bride & groom were riding on the bike. Hehe. So cute. Sorry for "stealing" the picture.


But really it's interesting. And best part? I didn't know my 2 dear cousins were part of the convoy.


Abg Yan was driving in one of the cars while Faizal was part of the convoy too! The bikes were "decorated" with pink flowers to mark that its part of the convoy. Lol. So cute! Heheh..! Adding some links to some of the pictures. Click here or here or even here to view three different albums!

As for Sunday, accompanied Bestie to Woodlands to attend her friend's wedding lunch since Ryan couldn't make it. The wedding was so grand and the color theme? Horny purple and bestie like it ;) A wide spread of food & delicacies / cakes which you will be spoilt for choice. But, overall, the food was superb. The cakes were delicious and mouth watering. The door gift was interesting. Small bottle of Ya Kun Kaya spread in a miniture basket. Lovely.

Latest song on my blog? Lady Gaga - Dirty Ice Cream. This should goes out to Shah. Really. Somehow, I just feel no chemistry exist between us.



Lyrics | Lady GaGa Lyrics | Dirty Ice Cream Lyrics

Labels: wedding

On Wednesday, met up with Lia at the block opposite my workplace and proceed to Tampines to pay for the course which I'm going to attend starting in 2 weeks time. The room was crampy and small..but can't expect more from the small organistaion

Anyway, after paying for the course which will be on every Wednesday night, we went down and saw this small shop selling clothes. My eyes fixed on a few clothings there. There's one particular "dress" I wanted but the only size available is XL. Asked if she have a smaller size. She said "Apa nak pakai ketat²? XL ni da ok." I felt as thou I'm wearing a wizard robe =/ (and I'm actually asking for L size..not S size!) But the lady was persistant that I buy that XL dress. But obviously I wouldn't want to look like a clown. So I rejected and quickly made our way out.


Bought a couple of tops in Century Square before heading down to Swensen, Tampines Mall to break my fast. At the same time, treat her dinner (thou I wanted to eat at Ramen Ten or Secret Recipe that day).

Anyway, I just can't stand living like this. Every workday, I've to reach by 6.45am and knocking off about 5pm thou I could knock off at 4pm (this is because the office staff will give us a look-as-thou-i-murder-someone if I leave early). By the end of the day, I will feel as thou all my blood as been squeezed dry from my body. In short, I feel lifeless & restless at the end of the day.

On Saturday, accompanied Mama to Mak Andak's home at Ang Mo Kio as they made kenduri since Kak Lina, Aidil's sister is flying off this Friday to USA for her phD for 4 years. Didn't see much of my relatives as they came at different timing. Initially it's supposed to start at 3pm but due to some miscommunication, it started later (and we both got to know they change the timing without informing us). But we started a bit earlier before Asar as we pity Atok who just sat there quietly.

Sometimes I feel like talking to him but I just don't know what to talk about. *sigh* When I looked at him, I could see his cheeks were saggy. It makes me wonder if I'm going to end up like that when I'm old.

And i got to know from Mama that 2 of my guy cousins are already engaged and the engagement is for 3 years. One of them is 22 years old while the other is 21 years old. Pretty young but I asked Mama how come we didn't know. Apparently, my Mak Uda (she's Indian Muslim) didn't want any of the relatives to know. Mama got to know about this when Nenek informed. Haiz, but we're still your relatives seh. Wth.

On the other note, hmm I know Shah is trying his best in communicating with me most of the time. But you know, sometimes I just feel weird.

Chatted with Zam via msn for 2 nights on Friday and Saturday. Somehow I find it that he does have a crush on me. He was asking me what will I do if he sits close to me? Or there's another one which I forgot.

Someone was commenting to me that being with Shah is good as it seems that he's drawing quite a lot of money. But, you know..at the end of it..it's not money that I'm seeking. It's how much attention, love, care and concern that I can get from the other party. And he knows that its hard to meet up since his working hours ain't regular.

And speaking of attention, that Faizal kept on sms-ing me almost everyday and sometimes at night by asking what am I doing. Oh come on. I just want to be left alone, ok? I just can't be bothered to reply his sms. At most, I just delete the message as soon as I received his sms.

And on 2 different occasions, when I ate something, it tasted as thou there's wasabi in it. Darn, am I craving for Japanese food again?

It's been a while since I last blog something here. Apologise for the late update.

I was very busy the whole of last week whereby I've to report to work by 630am and getting sweaty by running around the whole school which last for about 2 hours. And working extra late instead of knocking on time from work *faints*

This week might be a bit less busy for me. Oh well, but I still need to go for a massage as my shoulders has been screaming in pain =/ So babe, bila nak gi massage?

Let me update a few things I have in mind now.

Firstly, caught Transformers last Saturday with Shah.

Halfway the movie, when Optimus Prime was "dead", tears kept on flowing down my cheeks. Oh gosh. But lucky for me, he didn't noticed that I was crying =P Overall, I give the movie 4.8 over 5 popcorns.

Secondly, yesterday was Japanese foodie day. Lol. Met up with Hafiza around 3pm as I was having my off day. Went to Hei Sushi. Ice cream galore in the afternoon. Had like about 3 sushi before we "attacked" the dessert. Lol.



Bread covered with tempura with vanilla ice cream in the inside & strawberry on top. Yummy!


Unfortunately, the picture on the peach went something wrong =/

Netherless, the ice cream were mouth watering. Gosh, makes me feel like making a trip down again. Lol.

Thirdly, after 2 months of being single, I'm with Shah on 26th June 2009. Excited? Well, initially I was feeling excited. But, as days goes by..I just don't know why I find that something is missing. I know that he's into me like 85%. But am I?

Bestie was telling me not to be afraid in falling in love again. The thing is that I'm not afraid. But, I just find it weird. I can't feel it when I was out with him last Saturday which we watched Transformers.

Because we walked about 2 hands apart and I felt tensed meeting him that day unlike the lunch date. And lunch at Swensen was alright thou he was talking about his ex colleagues who worked in Swensens and followed by countless of phonecalls (he's working as housing agent, by the way).

I just don't want him to put high hopes but at the same time, I've been telling myself that I should learn to give him chances. Perhaps the feelings come a bit later. There are times I've been asking myself do I really love him? I just can't answer it, thou he kept on asking me every now and then. Perhaps also I find it too rushy. I mean for me to be in a relationship after 2 months of breaking up with Ewanz.

I just hope for the best. For, right now, I'm not putting any high hopes or anything. I just need time and it seems that I can't tell him that I need sometime. *sigh*

Please Allah, give me some strength in this.