This is going to be an extremely long post! xD

Extremely tired. Had to help assist with the * programme and I didn't know it's for those who are hyperactive with less attention span and will rather spend their time playing computer games instead of doing other things.

Video camera was dropped when one of the kid fell down on the video camera which I was holding. It just slipped (>.< ) And the best thing? One of the kids lost his right shoe which he placed outside my lab. And, they have been questioning me. Hello??!!?? WTH do I want to hide the kid's shoe for? The way they "asked" me was like accusing me. For goodness sake, I wasn't even around most of the time yesterday. I have people to vouch for me. Dammit!

Oh, and yesterday, I'm pissed off with the people I'm working with. They told me to shift down but I had not done so as I was too busy *sigh* And the best thing, I found out that my items are missing from my table! I couldn't find my stuff. *grr* And guessed where I found my items after that? Near the dry biscuits! Gosh! I just can't believe it! What I don't understand is why they have to move my things away from my table??

Took 3 hours off work yesterday at the very last minute. Wee~! I wasn't really feeling well yesterday but managed to meet up with Ewanz. Reached his home about an hour from work and found out that he's scolding the Snowy. And she was drenched as a punishment as she was running all over the place and out of the house, to which dear Ewanz had to chase her back and abandoned the vacuum cleaner. It pitied me that she got spank and being naughty. I could see from her eyes that she was pleading.

Sakit pulak my tangan pukul bontot dia xD

LOL. Anyway, about 10 minutes later his younger sister came back home (>.< ) I just don't feel like salam-ing her but I had too after Ewanz asked me to show my respect her.

She saw me and gave me a long unhappy black face and the way she received my hand, it's like tak ikhlas. I just sat at the usual place and watched tv. Initially, I wanted to cook for Ewanz but after the sister came back, I doubt I can even cook for him. While I was reading the paper (read it twice yesterday), I overheard the squabbling between the two of them (-_-") . It seemed that I'm not welcomed at all.

Her : Kau bawak pompuan balik bila aku takde pat umah. Bagus kan.
Dear: Pernah abg tak respect matair ko bila ko bawak balik?

Blablabla. At that point of time, I really felt stress. 3/4 of me wanted to just leave the house quietly. It brought tears to me. After that, he sat opposite me on the left side and was commenting on the show to which I was really quiet.

Napa ni? Cry eh?

I denied and refused to tell him thou tears were collected in my eyes. Snowy was snuggling in my lap yesterday. Aww, she's soo soft, adorable and cuddly. ^^p She must been feeling tired after the mischievous things she had done and the punishment she had received. After awhile, Ewanz let her entered his bedroom so she could sleep on the bed. Showed respect to her before I left and we had a quick dinner outside before I left for home.

Wait, I'm still not finish yet about his sister. I just find that she's damn unfair. She can bring her boyfriend home and I'm not even welcomed there.

If nak bebual soal agama, fine, bring it on. Nak cakap dosa berdua-duaan dalam rumah kalau bukan mahram right? Ok fine. So for the past time yang Ewanz keja, yg si bahlol ni bawak balik jantan dalam rumah and spend time berdua-duaan, tak consider dosa?? So kirakan I can't be with Ewanz alone and she can be with her boyfriend alone. Just because that house is under her name??

And one more thing. Mama and Abah never teach me to pull a long face towards guests or even being hostile towards guests. Whether you like your guests or not, still you've to respect them. At least, serve air kalau tak nak serve any food. Funny, you can even let the guest smell what you're cooking and eating it by yourself.

Ok, that I don't mind. Fine if you treat me as an outsider. But, at least you give your brother something to eat. Fark la.

Busuk² aku pon, tak pernah aku buat gitu pat orang lain, or even keluarga sendiri. Mama always remind me "Even if you hate that guest, if ada makanan, sajikan untuk mereka. Jangan sesekali masak bila ada tamu kalau makanan untuk keluarga sendiri tak cukup. Ni bukan soal kedekut, tapi it's also a sign of respect."

Affhh..Enough of that.

Sunday was merely a relax time for me. And Saturday (26/7), went to accompany Mama and Abah to buy a new phone. Abah bought the blue Nokia 5310 Express Music. Only when I was reached home, was having conversation with Ewanz, then he asked if I'm accompanying him to his friend's wedding. Last minute! Thou I had a feeling that my parents will be unhappy, I still got ready and went out after numerous calls to Mama as she went Geylang with Abah to buy food after buying the handphone. All I can say, my parents were unhappy that I went out to the wedding.

Anyway, I met Ewanz at Orchid Country Club and we later found out it should be at Yishun Safra Country Club. Bagus la tu. Saw his reservists friends and one with his wife & kids, the other with fiancee and the other one was solo. 50 tables in total and we were seated at the 48th table. Lots of DKKs at the wedding.

Guess what we saw on the table? Fork and spoon, tissue napkin and ... small plastic cups! OMG! The berkat was small fork and spoon and the person who gave us the gifts was telling us "Don't keep them in your bags. Just place it on your table so that we know you had received the gift". (-_-") Pathetic.

Sound system wasn't great. Only 1 speaker was used and we either can't hear it from the back (almost the whole time) or it's too loud for certain part of the video which they showcase. The emcee was horrible as most of the time, we couldn't understand what he's trying to say. (How can you say "Give a round of applause and a clap to the newly weds" ?)

When the bride and groom came in, the lights were not dimmed and the waiter was late in pouring water to the dry ice. In fact, the bride and groom had reached the stage and this waiter was still struggling to go between the guests just to pour water to dry ice (-_-")

As soon as the bride and groom sat down, most of the guests went out of the ballroom. We stood there wondering why guests walked out the moment both sat down. And we realised moments later that they actually went to take the food out as it's in buffet style (-_-")

Food aint great since I'm fussy about the taste. I dont know why but seriously, I'm very particular about the food I consumed.

Reached home about 11pm and I knew Abah was not happy with me. But I kept quiet. Interestingly, I noticed my living room was extremely neat, to which I realised that my kuzin Azrol & wife, Kak Mona & family with my aunt and uncle came over.

Work has been busy. Work over work. Projects over projects. And I can't find the time to do other stuff. *sigh*

I'm super tired nowadays. Even Ewanz know that. Especially when I'm using the lappy. I will just be gone after a few moments while my lappy is on.

That's how tired I am.

Felt like taking some time off tomorrow. But, to rest at home or just get away from work? I don't know.

My back is aching. Especially my top left shoulder. Darn, I badly need a massage. I could feel the tension are "stored" there, which results to muscle aches.

Mama said that I've been spending time on the computer for too long. Well, that's one of the reason too, but the other reason is that nobody is willing to massage me =/ Thou Ewans did help me once in awhile if I kept on complaining of aching.

Last Saturday was spent at home. I can't think of a place to go to if I wanna meet him. Besides, we're short of cash, so it's alright. Instead, I had some communications with Mama regarding my KPO auntie.

And yesterday, Cik Ros asked us to meet under our blk. So I accompanied Mama. Cik Ros passed us 5 durians, a bag of mangoesteen, some cikus, a bag of kang kong, 1 fruit of jackfruit and half a dozen of Dunkin Donuts =D

As I was fasting yesterday, I only started cooking about 6.15pm. The best thing? Mama too lazy to cook. So ended up, Abah had to wait till I'm preparing for my meals (to which I didn't know Mama didn't cook for him anything..)

And boy, I ate a lot yesterday night.

Wahh, byk nya makan?

xD hehehe...

We had Skype conversations whereby I'm "talking" to my lappie to have conversation with him. At least it saves the bill of hp xD

Oh, btw...Guess what? I've already altered my jeans! Lol! After nearly half a year since I last bought. Hehehe...

ArghH! I really hate it. Damn sway. Spoilt my Monday (T_T)

1st (Bad News):

They want me to shift down from my lab to the office =/ Aww, my privacy has been invaded!

1. I can't have short conversations / sms with Ewanz during working hours except lunch time.
2. I can't steal time playing facebook during my break time.
3. I can't have small snacks if they are not having snacks.
4. I can't do other work, especially those p&c stuff from my company without them seeing.
5. I can't take short naps especially during my lunch time! (T_T)
6. I can't stay back till after 530pm or they start question me why I'm not home yet.
7. I can't msn (T_T)
8. I can't skype (T_T)
9. I can't blog (T_T)

Their reasons are pretty lame.

Because we want to cut down on the aircon & lights usage

WTF! Does that mean they are blaming me that I'm using most of their money for all these?? Bullshit! Even their staff aren't helping them much by leaving computers running, aircon running and lights not switching off. WTF! And, fyi I didn't on the aircon when it's raining.

2nd I forgot to bring my wallet. Darn. I'm feeling hungry =/ But, I only have 50 cents in my bag *tsk tsk* I only have 4 pieces of Oreos which was initially in my bag and two small packets of raisins which wouldn't last me as I will be using my energy soon. Urgh. Boring!

3rd Last saturday, it was totally sucks. It's different than 2 years ago, but still, I find it unprofessionally done. Here's my reason:
a) I wasn't given a blank dvd to video & there's no spare ones here.
b) I missed some of the performances due to the video camera, thus I can't film most of it.
c) Food was sucks. Only 1 pathetic small drumlet with plain fried cabbage for lunch.
d) I didn't get any breakfast and I was hungry.
e) My lab aircon was extremely hot thou it's on & the door was wide open for about 6 hours.

And I didn't get to meet Ewanz *tsk tsk* It's been nearly a week now *sob sob*

4th Snowy was missing whole of yesterday. But, she returned home around 5 or 6am when his mom was about to leave for JB. And Snowy went straight to the kitchen. Ewanz then gave her some food, to which plate was cleaned by Snowy and she got scolding from him of course. Making him worried since she's free and easy cat.

Oh boy, I'm hungry =/

To think of it, I badly need a nice decent paying job soon.

I'm bored. Dead bored at work. Gosh. All because of this Saturday. Afffghhh! Everything I need to liase with the educators. Why can't they liase with me themselves despite knowing their schedule is super tight and I'm unable to see them.

*sigh* Can I not come on that day? But the problem is that I've to take MC. Told Ewanz about it (since I did told him I don't intend to come but since MC is required, I've to ditched the idea (T_T) Should have tell them I have relative wedding this sat *sigh*). Eventhough my role is just to do videography but still, I find it redundant because it's just another "show" but this time for parents who would wish to enroll their kids here. But, good luck to those who wish to do that. Don't complain that your kid is going through stress once they are admitted in.

Rushed my report through and I actually sent them pretty late online xD too busy ok. No time to do the reports. And today, had to go down to HQ just to submit the report (-_-")

Let's sum up a bit.

Both of us found a cat near CCK mrt. So we brought her home, to which Ewanz wanna take care of her. Here is her picture.

Lovely right? White and skinny with long tail. She's a beauty. Was fierce upon reaching Ewanz's home but was alright after left alone in the toilet for a few hours. And, what make me jealous is that she gets to sleep with Ewanz every night. Hmph! xD Thou dia binatang, still...tak salah pe if me jealous xD

Anyway, met up with Ewanz yesterday night for dinner as he didn't go to work. All because of melayu makan melayu. So be it. I can't say anything either on that issue. Hopefully he got a good job soon. And he still insist on hoping to be Boarding Officer.

Oh, did you know that Lot 1 is having Lingerie Sale! OMG. I was like "Ahh..Nice!" And he was like feeling uneasy and asked me "Are you done?" I would love to get some tops but, oh well..I hate to make him wait and feeling uncomfortable. Never mind about the stares from some ladies. It's natural ok. Don't tell me ladies never go to brief section for men?

I'm getting tired nowadays. Not enough rest. Thou I switched on the lappie, don't expect me to reply through msn as I might be sleeping instead of using it. Like last night, reached home and wanted to blog a little but ended up, I was asleep around 1130pm till Ewanz called me around 2am. And the laptop was still on! xD That's how tired I am.

I just dont wish to come to work for the time being. Can I take a few days rest again? Please?

One of my cousins got married over the weekends. Therefore, I couldn't see Ewanz. Rewang is soo boring as nothing much is done.

Presenting my niece who is mix of Morroco + Malay. I love her soft hair. Her name? I dont know how it's spelt but we called her Doa. Oh, that's Mama by the way.

Mak Dah & hubby were there since they were invited. And my uncle & aunt can't wait for us to get married.

Uncle Sal: Kiah (Mama), when can I see these decorations under your block?
Abah & Me: .....
Mama: Entah la..
Mak Dah: Ya la. (face to me) Quickly get married. I'm getting old soon. In future, it will be hard for me to walk and attend your wedding. (her leg was injured due to fall)
Me: .....

Told Ewanz about it. We're really unable to comment about it. To which Ewanz agreed with what I told him "I think if she (Mak Dah) wants to sponsor the wedding, I rasa no problem, kan?"

Anyway, on Sunday, we were there about 10am and found out my cousin was struggling to wear his Kain Samping. Lol. Before that, managed to snap the gifts for exchange in the room including the bunga rampai.


We took about 6 cars to Chai Chee. The solemnisation started about 11am on the stage (you need the use the steps beside the pelamin).

Solemnisation was done by the bride's father. He "recite" it once and at that point of time, I saw the bride's mom sobbing in her palms, behind the bride.

Below are the gifts from the bride to the groom.

The picture on the cake, looks cute right? Lol. Not sure when that picture was taken. Anyway, they have quite a funny story before they got married. Before, the bride refused all the proposals from other guys and insisted to marry my cousin and the bride's dad didn't want to marry his daughter to him. But, after much consideration, the bride's dad gave in and married his daughter to my cousin.

Two-tier cake was taken at the groom's place while the cupcakes with icing butterflies was taken at the bride's place. I just love the fountain. It's lovely, right?

About 330pm, they arrived at the groom's place. I just love the pelamin which my cousin had. Look kinda grand. Took with the groom's parents. Bottom picture is my cousin Nana & my niece Syahirah.

At about 430pm -440pm, the cake-cutting ceremony. Not many people left but, oh well, who cares?

I didn't managed to get the whole relative-family picture as my sister didn't bring her camera. So all these pictures were taken from my handphone.

And, lucky enough, my cousin is kind to send the family photo (thou not all are in the picture). Some were upstairs doing their prayers, some were still doing tidy up, some were washing, etc.

As you can see, the groom's family was supposed to wear maroon-pinkish-purple colour for females.

It was soo kecoh on that day as there's not enough berkat to be given to the guests. All 900 berkats. And yet, my Mak Uda had to go down to iKea to buy 2 boxes of the containers and a few of my cousins & aunts & Mama had to pack oreos into plastic bags while waiting for the containers.

Total guests on that day? I think about 1500 - 2000 people. Since 600 received the cards, 200 ( if I'm not mistaken) by mouth. And you may never know how news can spread like fire. xD

Lots of food on that day. Even the cook had to cook again at about 2pm as I found out that there's no more rice to be served. I didn't ate after I came back from the bride's place and was on the feet to be the runner for the cups, plates, spoons & cakes. Not sure how much cousin spent on that day but I heard about S$10k for the food (and maybe combine together with the decoration).

Oh, I didn't manage to capture their picture with my grandparents as they did it quite fast and my Atok was having difficulties to walk due to old age.

Anyway, I would like to wish both of them a blissful marriage till eternity.

Labels: wedding

You know, when you're too busy and too tired to do anything, the mood to update your own blog is not there. So many things to say, yet not enough time to "pen" your thoughts down.

Anyway, all I can say is that I have a busy start on Monday. Ewanz was on mc for two days again. Time to talk to him about his health. I noticed that he's been on mc for almost every month. Met him on Monday around 840pm as I left work about 7pm and he told me last minute that he wanted me to accompany him to have dinner. He went to hospital about nearly 11pm with Tosh and I was already fallen asleep by then without touching my laptop or even the computer. I was dead tired.

And yesterday, gosh extremely busy. Msn was on but I don't even have that much time to sit down and entertain any msn chat. Even when I was at my desk, I was busy doing all the updating to the last min task which I received in the morning. Chasing some teachers, going in and out of the lab and my computer hangs a lot of times (-_-") By the time I ended all my stuff, it's nearly 7pm.

And today, I was "rushed" by the operations to get the list of rooms available here. I was supposed to get from him but he wants me to get it all listed (-_-") It's your task, man! Don't push your task to me. @#$% I still got the job done as I know that complaining to my supervisor, wouldn't do any better. And guess where I find him after I've done? In the canteen talking away with a group of colleagues. Thanks eh. It's really not fair.

Anyway, was talking to Ewanz yesterday and guess what I found out?

Ewanz : You tau, smlm my adeq nya bf dtg umah. Weird dia dtg on Tues. Mungkin every Tues.
Me: Huh? Eh?
Ewanz: Dorg ingatkan I takde pat umah, so bf dia dtg.
Me: Eh! Tak fair seh! Oh. Ur adeq bwk lelaki balik bole. I dtg ur rumah tak leh. Tul tak fair uh.
Ewanz: Ntah la uh. Biar lah apa dia nak buat.

Really so not fair. Haiyah. So you see, even the daughter brings a man into the house, why can't Ewanz bring me into the house? The only difference is that I sometimes come over on Saturday. But usually I will try and avoid going to his home. Haiz.

If, only his mom sees this. Confirm terdiam. And who knows she will be extra nice to me when she sees me next time?

I'm having headache again =/